Had real fun during the stupid 21km... talked so so much with stupid lemon right from the start... cam whore on benjamin shears highway while all the serious runner giving us "the stare", buying delifrance muffin and magnum ice cream at a petrol kiosk, walking for almost 8km with my bladder at full capacity that i couldnt walk straight...
A BIG THANK YOU TO CLEMENT FOR PUSHING ME ON ALL THE WAY!!! I ended the run with a limp cuz my left ankle hurt like crap... But the stupid medal made it all worth it, some celebration photos!
Bao bao subsidised our swensens outing with his swensens vouchers that he won for being top scorer... too bad he was on the phone when the girls wanted to take photos...
Went to Ikea to meet up with G-boy, Sam Sam, Japan and Amanda, the latter whom i've not met in a long long time! =D Miss them so much la! =D
and crazy japan was so amused that i was decked in yellow haha... so she tortured me by making me turn round and round to take shots at me. haha..
Then then i plotted with evilest sook yi to suprise attack on the small eyes right after school but she actually went home, bathe and 'took her own time to eat lunch!' wahhhh make me stall for like 3h until the eyes nearly kill me la.... But alas the pictures are so nice! =D
smoke machine!
the the super crazy dried fish they ate from muji! somemore ask me try! oh my... fear factor!
So ya after months of waiting, i claimed my birthday present. for all of u who also want one, feel free to drop by to your friendly neighbourhood Jeanie and say three magic words to collect your timbuk2, crumpler or LV bag, which ever u prefer. The magic words are 'thank you small eyes'. its that simple. even aladdin had only 3 wishes, but as long as u use the magic words, its unlimited wishes. so go on. =D
Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed... Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished...
Men
When a man does not feel needed in relationship, he gradually becomes passive , with each day he has less to give. however, when he feels trusted to give his best to fulfill her needs and feel appreciated for his efforts, he is empowered and has more to give.
Not to be needed is a slow death for a man.
Women
When a woman doesnt feel cherished in a relationship she gradually becomes compulsively responsible and exhausted from giving to much. However when she feels cared for and respected, she is fulfilled and has more to give as well.
Was reading Men are from mars and women are from venus for the third time i think. cuz i forgot what was it all about. Also to undersatnd myself and my dear little sister and friends better. well i reason if i wanna help a pal, guy or gal, then i better know what approach to use! =D so far, this is what i can understand la... what i type out is what i agree with but of course every person's different.
Why you should not offer men advise
A man's self worth is derived from his ability to achieve results. this is why when women offer unsolicated advice is a sure fire way to push a few anger buttons. in doing so, you are implying that he is incompetent and cant do the matter on his own. The time to offer advise is when HE ASKS YOU for it.
Why men offer advise instead of listening to a woman
Unlike women who cope by talking about their problems, men on the other hand, only talk about their problems when he requires help from the other party, probably someone he respects. To men, talking about a problem is an invitation for advise whereas women mainly just want you to listen. that's why we instinctively offer solutions when women talk about problems.
Why women instinctively give advise to men
Women pride themselves in being considerate of the needs and feelings of others. A sign of great love is to offer help and assistance to another without being asked. A man however may feel offended as he doesnt feel she trust his ability to do it himself.
i was talking to eujinn on how irritating it is when gals like to hold something against us when they expect us to remember that we are not supposed to do to them. Ya its annoying. so....
Dear ladies, please stop using the phrase, 'you know'. like 'YOU KNOW i dont like this and that so why you still do it' or 'YOU KNOW i am like that...' The fact is that is a loaded question. And there are many more things on our mind that some things which you told us before are forgotten. Its kinda irritating. cuz well, ya we dont put all the minute minute details of your what u dont like and what you like. by using 'YOU KNOW...' against something we do unintentionally, well its the start of a quarrel.
Just to let all my lovely fans out there know that i've swapped to twitter mostly. u can drop me an sms or bug me on msn to ask for my twitter user. =D
